Saturday, March 21, 2009

Shots of Shamian Island

Here are a few more shots of Shamian Island taken on our walk today.

First, a group of musicians and singers performing traditional Chinese music in the park.
Next is an example of the architecture on the island and two varieties of poinsettias growing ... outside, mind you. When's the last time you saw that in the Northwest?

Assorted pics from our walk.
This was a shoe store we ran into that sold shoes with Mickey Mouse all over them. Couldn't tell if they were actual Disney products. Didn't see the TM sign anywhere.
And I couldn't make heads or tails what their sign meant. "MICKEY IN TRIP ... shall we in trip? feel so happy." Somebody interpret for me.
And finally, the ubiquitous Starbuck's. We didn't buy. Only walked in to smell. Tomorrow we may indulge for a taste of Seattle in Guangzhou.

Another Not-Quite-Lazy Day in Guangzhou

Saturday, March 21, 7:36 pm - Considering last night's sleep was less than stellar, I managed to make it through the day feeling pretty good. This morning we went to the bank to exchange traveler's checks and some US cash into Chinese yuan (or RMB which stands for "renmenbi" and means "people's currency). We ran into a snag when we were informed that the bank only exchanges traveler's checks on Mondays and Fridays. Seeing that we needed the money on Monday for some of our adoption fees, that posed a problem. They gladly exchanged our cash, but we had to find another way to exchange the traveler's checks. Fortunately, the hotel desk was able to do it for us, so our concern was short-lived. Besides, we may have had time to do it at the bank on Monday anyways, but our experience so far with the bank here is that things move very slowly, therefore we didn't want to chance doing things at the last minute on Monday.



Next we went to the business center and made photocopies of necessary documents which we need to present to the proper authorities. While waiting for help, we met some nice folks from the Bay Area who were both adopting their first children. I felt like the experienced old man since I'd walked this path before. We also met a mom from Pennsylvania and her new son later on in the day. It's an amazing thing, how you have an instant bond with these people whom you've never met and with whom you have nothing in common except adopting children in China, and you can easily strike up a conversation with them and see how they exude joy.



And now I've just had a strange sense of Deja Vu. I think I remember feeling some of these same feelings and thinking these same thoughts the last time around. I may have even blogged about them. Guess I'll have to dig around in some old posts and see.



Finally, we hit the streets again for some more relaxing and shopping. I am not a good shopper. I need to know exactly what I want before I enter a store. This is not easy here with so much variety, and with shopkeepers breathing down your neck, telling you that your baby cannot do without this, or this, or this, and how you will like this, or your wife will like this, and how they will give you such a good price. 50% off today only. Business has been so slow. I really like you, you nice. Your cousin, she look like a teenager. You want this? You drive a hard bargain. I cannot sell that to you at this price. How about this much? You want two? Three? Come on, you buy three, I give you good price.



Actually, it's not all that bad. It's kind of fun, haggling with them. It's part of the game and all good-natured.



After more strolling around the island, we ended our day at a restaurant next to the hotel. I can't tell you the name of it, and that's as it should be, because the food was underwhelming. We thought we were at a great Italian place that one of the Bay Area dads recommended to us. But I don't think this was it. We did order spaghetti, but Jan and I decided that it was, in her words, "Craptastic." It was edible, but had a real funky aftertaste that even mango ice cream and a Diet Coke could not kill. I liked it less than Jan did and could not even eat half of it. Thank the Lord for peanut butter M&M's.

Friday, March 20, 2009

I must still be on Pacific Time

It's Saturday, March 21, 7 am here. I thought I was in the clear with this whole jet lag thing. After being up for 28 hours while in transit (with just a few cat naps), I went to bed early Friday morning around 1 am but didn't sleep a real sound sleep. Last night, I hit the sack around 8:30 and went right to sleep. Victory! Or so I thought. I was wide awake at 11 pm. I laid there and laid there, trying to get back to sleep, but to no avail. It didn't help that my mind was racing about all the upcoming events here. Around 2 am I picked up a book and read for a bit, and around 3 am the eyelids started to get heavy again. The next time I awoke, it was 6:30 am, and here I am. The breakfast buffet and the coffee are calling my name.

Just a clarification on one of the pictures in the last post. Don't let me give you the impression that Jan and I flew business class. We were in coach. That was just the nearest sign with the name of our airline on it (which was Hainan Airlines, by the way).

I received a fax yesterday from our Bethany liaison here in China which gave us a more detailed account of our agenda. One of her assistants will be contacting us here soon and the plan is to receive Aidan at 2:30 pm on Monday, March 23. That will be 11:30 pm on Sunday night back on the West Coast.

Strolling and Shopping


Friday, March 20: Here's Jan and me before we boarded the plane on Wednesday. I'm sure we looked much more chipper then than we did today. We were both feeling tired, yet we still managed to get out and stroll around a bit and even began some of our shopping. The plan is to get most of it done before we receive Aidan on Monday.

Here's a shot of that great breakfast buffet at the White Swan Hotel. This isn't even the half of it. There are several other sections with an amazing assortment of foods.

Ran into these two fiddlers during our walk around Shamian Island, where our hotel is located. Wish I had brought my fiddle along. I would have fit right in with these two old codgers.
Shamian Island is acutally a little sandbank island in the Pearl River. It is separated by a small channel from the rest of Guangzhou's busy streets which you can see behind me in the picture of me and the fiddlers. It feels like more of a resort than part of a city whose metropolitan population is approaching 10 million. Below are a few shots of our stroll around the island today.

And here's my "coach" Jan with another pal she ran into outside the entrance to our hotel.
We ended the day with a couple of burgers at Lucy's, a friendly little American-style cafe a short walk from the White Swan. We ate outside since the temperature was quite pleasant, although you can feel the humidity. Thankfully it wasn't as hot today as we were expecting. That's me leaning against the "Lucy's" (although you can't see it) sign ... leaning not because of the Tsingtao, but because I'm ready to head back and relax for the rest of the evening, ready to recharge for tomorrow.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

We Made It!

We made it! We arrived safe and sound in Guangzhou. The plane rides from Seattle to Beijing and then from Beijing to Guangzhou were perfect. The shuttle ride from Guangzhou airport to the White Swan hotel was treacherous. That was my first experience in a small vehicle like that on the roads in China. I don't think there are any rules on the road here. Nevertheless, we managed to get in around 11:30 pm on Thursday night. We were quite exhausted and ready to turn in.


Our hotel rooms are adjoining and overlook the Pearl River (we're on the 9th floor). Last night it was very beautiful, with the lights on the buildings on the other bank reflecting on the water. This morning (Friday the 20th), it's not so pretty...it's a very gray and hazy morning. We're expecting very hot and humid temperatures today...and the next day, and the next day. Well, Jan is waiting for me to go downstairs for a late breakfast. Today we plan to relax, get adjusted, look around, and start doing a little shopping if we're up to it.


By the way, we saw this sign in the Beijing airport. Can any of you tell me what this means? The best I can figure is "Watch out for radioactive children. They may try to scare you, and the girls only have one leg."

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Bye, Daddy! Go get Aidan!


Here's Julie and Lily waving goodbye to me. I will miss them terribly...but thanks to technology we're going to try to keep in touch. Our laptops both have webcams and Skype loaded and ready to go. Thanks for your prayers. My flight leaves tomorrow afternoon. I'll try to have more posts as soon as I am able.
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Last Minute Preparations

Packing's almost done. Just a few more things to get squared away in my suitcase and backpack. Today we need to run through the paperwork one more time to make sure everything is in order. We also plan to make some video and audio recordings of Julie and Lily talking to Aidan. When we went to receive Lily, we played a cassette recording of Julie talking and singing to Lily which we played every night at bedtime. Hearing Julie's voice seemed to be helpful in recognizing Julie when Lily got home here in the US, so we thought we'd do this again for Aidan. This time, we also plan to make some video, since I'll be taking my laptop along.

Plus, while Lily's napping today, I'm going to make a recording of some of my "famous" bedtime stories for her to listen to while I'm gone. Dad's stories are much better than Mom's. Mom will admit that, and Lily will certainly give you her opinion on that.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Follow Along With Us

I just added the new "Followers" gadget in the sidebar at the right. Feel free to click there and add your name to the list. It'd be fun to see who's checking our blog out.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Packing Pile

Well, this is the pile so far of what I'm taking on this trip. Notice it's all kid stuff. Pull-ups. Clothes. Sippy cups. Pedialyte. Formula. Stuffed animal. Etcetera. Oh, wait, I see a deodorant stick, a bag of M&M's, and a jar of instant coffee. Those are mine. And all three are definitely essentials, right? But I'm a little worried about fitting the rest of my stuff in.

Monday, March 09, 2009

9 days to go!

It's been awhile since we updated the blog, we've been busy preparing for the trip to China. We are probably at about 75% ready. Our paperwork is almost done, the shopping is pretty much done, and the packing just got started.

Today was fun because we met with Jan, my cousin who is traveling with Kurt to get Aidan. It was good to sit with her and Kurt and go over our goals, packing lists, thoughts, etc. Since I'm not going, it makes me feel better to get everything "off my brain." We then went shopping and found some great walking shoes and a new backpack for Kurt. When we got home we received our China itinerary which gave us the daily schedule in China as well as our lodging info. We are so happy that Kurt and Jan will be staying in the White Swan Hotel as they did last time. It's a really nice hotel and it's nice to have the "familiar" while in China.

Two weeks from today Kurt will hopefully have Aidan in his arms. March 23rd is our "Gotcha Day" (though it will be March 22nd here with the time difference :)) We are so thrilled and thankful to be bringing Aidan to our family. Lily is getting very excited to have a little brother.

Kurt promises to blog as much as he can from China. He is taking his laptop this time, so it will be easier to communicate since he won't have to leave his room. I'm excited that we both have web cams and Skype so that we hopefully will be able to talk to and see each other live.

Thanks for continued prayers, we especially ask for prayers of continued good health for Aidan and the travelers and for safe travels. We'll keep you posted...

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Aidan, here we come!!!

This morning we got the news that we have a consulate appointment in Guangzhou on March 30, and then, this afternoon, the email arrived giving us our travel options. Jan (Julie's cousin) and I will be heading out 4 weeks from tomorrow (March 18) to bring Aidan home. Our plan is to arrive in Guangzhou a few days before we receive Aidan so that we can be refreshed after the long trip, better prepared to take care of a 2 1/2 year old. We should be returning on April 2. We will continue to keep you posted as our departure approaches, and of course, I plan to blog during the trip as much as possible.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Wonderful Pictures of Chinese New Year Celebrations

From the Boston Globe's feature "The Big Picture."  Click on the link below to view the pictures.

Chinese New Year - Welcoming the Ox - The Big Picture - Boston.com
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Sunday, January 25, 2009

Happy Chinese New Year!

2009 is the Year of the Ox. Here's hoping we'll also see a bull market!

Picture credit from Gift: A Gift e-Shop

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Aidan's Adoption Update

Just thought we'd update you on our journey to Aidan. We received our official acceptance document from China on Jan. 6th and sent it back right away. Now we wait a month or so for our travel invitation which includes our U.S. consulate appointment. Then, if all goes well we will travel in March. That's the best guess from our adoption agency. So, in the meantime, we keep busy getting his room ready, reading lots of books/websites/blogs on toddler adoption/cleft palate issues/attachment issues. Lily is very excited to bring Aidan home, she is really looking forward to being a big sister. In fact today she drew up her own adoption paperwork, called it her "China report" and said it would help for Aidan's adoption. It was so precious. We'll keep you posted, especially when we get the travel dates.

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Chaos in the Creche

Lily has a kid friendly nativity set that she can touch and handle. We added figures to the creche in the days leading up to Christmas. Baby Jesus was added on Christmas Eve, and today being Epiphany we added the Wise Man (the set only came with one). As you can see, things didn't go so well. The Wise Man knocked Joseph over, with Mary looking on aghast. The shepherd looks anxious to go tell it on the mountain. The Baby Jesus somehow climbed up to the top of the inn. The only one doing their job is the angel, who still seems to be singing "Gloria in excelsis Deo."

Saturday, January 03, 2009

Lily at Christmas

Here's Lily in her Christmas dress.

 
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Sledding...or is it "bucketing"?

We'll eventually get this kid properly outfitted. One thing at a time. This year it was mittens. Next year it'll be a sled. In the meantime, a plastic washbasin had to suffice. Here we go, down the driveway.

 
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On the Prowl

Happy New Year to everyone!

Here's Lily imitating a neighborhood "friend" after one of our latest snow falls.

 
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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Just to prove we're not really bad parents after all

You may not remember last year's snow pictures, but we sure do. We felt sure we had traumatized Lily forever, making her wear way-too-big latex gloves over her cloth gloves. This year, we were prepared, thanks to Julie's mom ... Lily has some nice waterproof mittens to wear as we played in this season's first snowfall.



Saturday, November 15, 2008

Issues with Domestic Adoptions

Of course, we decided to adopt internationally. Click here to read an interesting article which describes current issues with domestic adoptions here in America.

Friday, November 07, 2008

Meet Our New Little Guy

Drum roll, please. Here are the pictures of Aidan Tianzhen that we received via email.
We went to see our pediatrician the day after the referral arrived to show her all the paperwork we received. Aidan seems to be small for his age and may need several surgeries over time for his cleft palate. As a result of this, he will probably need extra therapies and dental work over the years. We will also have to deal with more language issues since Aidan has had two years of hearing Chinese as opposed to the 10 months that Lily had. Also, with an older child we will have to be more sensitive about attachment and bonding issues.

We're overjoyed at the thought of Aidan joining our family. We ask for your prayers as we continue on this journey to get him, and prayers for Aidan as he waits for us.

It's Official

It's official. We received word today that we were approved by China to go ahead with the adoption of our new little guy. That means two things. First, we have to wait for the letter of acceptance and travel invitation from China. As soon as that all goes through the proper channels, then we will be traveling to get him. Second, it means that we are free to give more details about our son.

Our son. We weren't quite prepared for that. Not that we didn't think this was a possibility, since many more special needs children from China are boys. But we had a name for another girl picked out already and hadn't even been thinking about boys names. Not to mention that we've been saving all of Lily's clothes. Lily offered to share her clothes, but we explained that boys don't wear girl's clothes.

His name will be Aidan Tianzhen. His given name is Guan Tianzhen, and so we will use Tianzhen as his middle name. He is from Dongguan city in the Guangdong province. As far as we can tell, Tianzhen means "naive" or "innocent," but that's all we could find out by "googling" it. I'm sure we'll learn more later.

We've already been to the pediatrician to have her look at all the paperwork we received and for her to evaluate Aidan's condition as best as she is able. It looks like he has already had surgery to repair a cleft lip, but he will still need surgery for a cleft palate.

We don't know yet when we will travel. More than likely it will be after the new year, but there's a remote possibility it could be around Christmas time. That would figure...I was gone to get Lily during Holy Week and Easter. It would only be appropriate to be gone on another high feast day of the Church...not exactly easy times for a pastor to be gone from his congregation, but I'm sure God will work things out.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

We've Been Chosen!

We didn't think it would be happening this soon. It hasn't even been a month yet since our special needs paperwork was filed. But Julie about had a heart attack Thursday morning when our social worker called and said that a child has been assigned to us. Even our social worker was surprised that it was so fast. It's a 2-year old boy in China with special needs. He has a cleft palate. We will give you more information and pictures when we are able.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Cheerios for Jesus

This past Sunday morning, Lily and I are having Cheerios with Reese's Puffs mixed in. We do this to cut the sugar content while still enjoying a little bit of "fun" cereal.

Then came the following exchange.

Lily: "I no like Cheerios. Why put Cheerios in, too?"

Me: "Because Cheerios are good for you."

Lily: "Why?"

Me: "Because they have oats in them. Oats are good for your heart."

Lily: "I eat Cheerios, go down into my heart, Jesus eat my Cheerios."

Thursday, September 25, 2008

More Paperwork for #2

This week we've been filling out and filing more paperwork for adoption #2. As you may already know, we have expressed our willingness to adopt a special needs child, or "Child of Promise" (COP) as our agency calls them. The process for adopting special needs children from China has been modified, so we needed to fill out some more paperwork for the new process. Rather than bore you with the details, suffice it to say that things are still in the works. As of now, our wait is about the same...about two years...but that could change if we are matched with a "COP."

And thank the Lord for scanners and email. That sure makes all the paper shuffling a lot easier.

Monday, September 08, 2008

More Pics from the Fair

Here's Lily and Daddy. That's Daddy putting on a good face...he was getting a bit queasy.

Lily learned how clothes were washed in the "olden days."

Finishing out the day with an ice cream dip all over the face.

We weren't even out of the parking lot before someone nodded off.

A Day at the Fair

Lily went to the Puyallup Fair with her Mom and Dad and Grandma and Papa Hepola. She got to sit in a miniature fire truck.

Then she picked out her very own "hog" to ride.

Here she is getting ready to ride the kiddie roller coaster. I think she's saying to the other girls, "Do you really think is such a good idea?"

Driving is one of Lily's favorite activities. This beats those cheesy fake cars with shopping cars attached at the grocery store.

At first, Lily and Papa were going to go down the giant slide together. They made it all the way up the stairs, and then started back down. She wanted to go down with Daddy instead.

Thursday, September 04, 2008

First Day of Preschool

Here's Lily (and her monkey backpack) all giddy about heading out to her first day of preschool ("Little Lambs" at our church).

First thing you do is hang up your backpack.

Next, you find your nametag and your box with your name on it.

Then, you finish your long, hard, busy day (well, okay, 2 hours) at preschool with a chocolate shake at Red Robin.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Best Thing Lily Ever Said

So we're watching a baseball game on TV the other day, and one of the announcer mentions the Yankees. Lily gets up, puts her hands on the counter, sticks out her bottom, and says...

"Show Yankees my bum."

I finally feel like I've succeeded as a parent.

(I had to post this one, just for posterity's sake...or should I say "posterior's sake")

Monday, June 23, 2008

First Trip to the Magic Kingdom

So ... can you tell what we did on our vacation? In addition to going to Grammy O's house in Rancho Cucamonga at the end of April (I know, I know...why didn't you post these pictures sooner?), we visited a certain amusement park in Anaheim, CA. I'll post some more fun pictures from our trip another time.

Notice that it was "Pup-pup's" (Lily's ever-present stuffed animal friend) first time there, too.

Good Bye Crib, Hello Big Girl Bed

Lily got her first "big girl" bed not long before her 3rd birthday a few weeks ago. Here she is waving good bye to her crib and "testing out" her new bed.


Thursday, February 28, 2008

DTC

DTC means "Dossier to China." We were informed today that our paperwork has been mailed to China for our second adoption. This is an important milestone in the adoption process, and now the next date for which we wait is the LID ... "Log in Date" ... the day our dossier is logged in in China.

I also read this article today that says China is considering scrapping its one-child policy. I don't know how that will affect us at the moment. Guess we'll just have to wait and see. It's going to be a long wait no matter what.

Thursday, February 07, 2008

Year of the Rat

Happy Chinese New Year!

2008 is the "Year of the Rat." For more fun information about the "Year of the Rat," click here.

We're not having as big of a shindig as we did last year. Not to mention the fact that you are supposed to have a feast on the eve of the New Year. Kind of hard for us to feast on Ash Wednesday. Today we're going to have lunch at a nearby Chinese restaurant. Then tonight, the church youth group meets at our house, so we'll probably have them help us celebrate in some way.

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Plowing Right In


We had our first snow of 2008 yesterday. Unlike Lily's first excursion into the snow, when she was so tentative and skittish, this time she plowed right in. No fear. She plopped right down and even got on her belly several times and said she was "tend swim" (translation: "pretending to swim").


And then we made Lily's first snowman! Below is a picture of our masterpiece, complete with carrot for a nose and chopsticks for arms. That was not supposed to be any cultural reference to Lily's national origin...it was all mom found in a moment's notice.


By the way, please, no wise cracks about the kid's gloves. We still have not bought her any snow mittens or gloves. So we used the poor man's method...fleece mittens covered by surgical gloves. Hey, at least it's a step up from the last playtime in the snow. We used baggies and rubber bands then!

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Today did not start out well

Don't worry. It did get better. More about that in a moment.

We were on our way to Olympia to get all our our documents state-sealed so that we could finally get our dossier sent to our agency in Seattle, then off to China.

Our first stop was Bartel Drug Store to get a photocopy made. Copier was out of order.

Our next stop was Albertson's supermarket. Copier was out of order.

Julie then drove across the parking lot to Staples' to make the photocopy. Success.

Back to Albertson's and our credit union branch inside to get a couple of signatures notarized. The branch officer could not locate her stamp. After a futile search, she had to get another notary to do the job.

Before driving to Olympia, we needed some sustenance, so we went over to Starbuck's also inside Albertson's. Water supply not working. No coffee.

No problem. We bought a couple of bagels and drinks from Albertson's. Total price? $6.66. Freaky.

Now, I don't put any stock whatsoever in stuff like that, but the way things were going, you have to admit, it was a little weird.

Everything else went swimmingly. Weather and traffic were fine on the hour and forty-five minute drive to Olympia. Hardly had to touch my brakes even going through downtown Seattle. Same on the way back. And it took all of a half-hour at the state offices to get our paperwork completed.

Julie's putting the finishing touches on the dossier as I type this. Tomorrow she will deliver it to our agency in Seattle.

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas!

As many of you know, we don't send out Christmas cards. We send out Easter cards instead. However, click here to view a fun little Christmas greeting to those of you who check out our blog. God's blessings to you this Christmas and New Year.

Friday, November 30, 2007

End of November Update

No, we haven't been watching Survivor. We're simply trying to survive being parents of a 2-year old.

We're also waiting for our paperwork to come back from immigration. We traveled to Yakima to the Department of Immigration back in October to submit our paperwork and get fingerprinted. We were told that by going directly to Immigration rather than the Dept of Homeland Security to get fingerprinted shaves about a month's time off the whole red-tape process. It was a day-long excursion over to Yakima, but worth it to save a month, if that's really what it ends up being. Not to mention the fact that the fall colors over the mountain passes were beautiful.

We didn't know what to expect in Yakima. Homeland was near Seattle...big building, big crowd, ethnically diverse. Yakima was a small one-storey building in a downtown neighborhood, and it was the three of us with three other families waiting to be taken care of. We were in and out in about 20 minutes. I don't remember how long we waited at Homeland last time, but I can assure you it was MUCH longer than 20 minutes.

As soon as the paperwork comes back to us, we'll then have everything ready to take to Olympia, have it state sealed, then given to our agency to submit to China. There's still a lot to be done and a lot more waiting.

Hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving celebration. We had a good laugh towards the end of dinner. Lily has become quite the comedian. Julie asked all our guests to share something they are thankful for. One young friend began by saying "I'm thankful for..." and paused, when Lily jumped in with a loud, "MONEY!!!"